The Worst Generation Ever- Brey

My reaction when asked about today's generation of teens

Let me just address the group of people who will read this post and immediately start rattling off exceptions and arguments. I know there are exceptions to every single rule, except "Shut the fuck up and read". That being said,

I come from probably the worst generation of kids ever to walk this earth. It truly saddens me that when older people scowl and shy away from us, I know they have good reason. There are major trends in the make up of this generation(90's babies and so on), so I've broke it down:

"Too Cool Kids" - These are the kids who thrive in grade school. They are the popular ones. They run all the parties, know everyone who is anyone, fuck all the attractive people, and basically make life hell at school for people attempting to actually do something with their lives. They are not necessarily dumb, however they will do anything to remain in the good graces of popularity. These kids do dumb shit and find it hilarious. They embarrass us at malls and social functions where real adults happen to be. they are the most salvageable though, cause growing up naturally dwindles away at that need for social acceptance amongst peers. MOST grow up, some remain the same. These are the grown ups you see partying and clubbing at college parties at 30. They want to remain relevant

"IDGAF Kids" - These are the kids I'm deathly scared of. These are the motherfuckers you see on the news everyday. They have no regard for human life or emotion, and essentially live their lives to cause as much tyranny as they can conjure up until they get shot, killed, or go to prison. They make it no fun to go out in public at night, or have your kids just play outside anywhere. They usually travel in packs and (let's just be honest) have dirty dreadlocks. Their life expectancy in the free world is very small, but they don't care. They only listen to Gucci and Boosie, and they're screamin YOLO and actually mean that shit. 

"The Thinkers" - These kids are fine. They may smoke a little weed or somethin but they mean no harm and think logically when it comes to social situations. They go through the immature stage like everyone else but they grow up on a normal pace and keep their wits about them. They generally go to college to be around other thinkers, but sometimes they go off on the career path they desire immediately. I personally liken myself to this crowd more than anyone else. They keep hope alive

"The Drifters" - The "Nothings" basically. They coast through life on an empty plane. It's more than likely due to the fact that they're lazy and can't really figure out what they want to do with their lives. They probably have a job or somethin. They clock in, clock out, and maybe hit a party every other weekend with their drifter friends. Pretty much sums them up

Now I'm aware these categories exist in every generation of humans really, however the level of chaos today's youth brings is unmatched. Nowadays kids are raping each other, killing each other, ruining others' lives, all more frequently. I wish I could help them, because by no means do I feel I'm better than any of them, but they need help from anyone. I understand that we are a product of our circumstances and time, but we have to get back to caring about others. Nobody gives a fuck about anybody else that isn't in their immediate family/friend circle and that's sad. People used to want to help each other, what happened?

I'm Out tho,

Brey

Logic 101:Relationships-Brey

Hola gang...Having recently just abruptly ended my 5 year long relationship, I just have a few thoughts for you guys considering relationships or already in one:

• Don't waste someone's time

 A lotta people are floating around aimlessly waiting for someone better to come along while stringing together lies about feelings to the person they're currently dating. I'm a recent #WhoHurtYou victim of this. She lost whatever feelings she had for me, yet continued to date me feeding me lies about still loving me. The other person will almost ALWAYS figure it out and get hurt. Then you create trust issues amongst good people who will then go on to continue the vicious cycle you started. Just be up front. If you just want to sex someone with no strings, LET IT BE KNOWN. If you want something serious, same thing.

• Communicate Effectively

You've heard it a million times, Communication is the MOST important thing when dealing with people in general, but especially relationships. Females and males alike tend to believe the other is a mind reader a lot of the time. This is never the case. Sure they may be able to predict actions/reactions based off of their prior knowledge, but they can't know how you FEEL about something unless you speak the fuck up. If her breathe stinks all the time, let her know that's a problem for you. If he can't eat the box, let him know otherwise he'll think he's killing it cause you allow him to. If she uses teeth AT ALL while-nvm you get the idea.

• Title it up

Sorry fellas, but titles are necessary for most women. That grey ambiguous area where you may be hittin it and leadin her on to believe there could be more is just creating more and more trust issues in our generation. Don't forget, "We're just Fucking" is technically a title.

I could go on and on but I'll just leave it there today. Stay classy my friends

I'm out,

Brey

Logic 101: The Fake Care Effect- Brey

Wassup y'all. I just gotta vent a little about a trend I've seen that I'm choosing to call the "Fake Care" effect.

These nationally televised court cases and publicized legal matters have been rearing people's ignorant negligence to an ugly head. I truly don't understand why most people choose to Fake Care about these things. The day shit is about to come to an end all of a sudden you're picketing outside? Since when did most of y'all care? Just stop it. People want to stand for something I get that but don't just hop on the Care Train when a verdict is reached or a person is executed. You showing support on the spot is totally different than pretending you cared all along. We all know the justice system isn't perfect but you if you're not gonna change it then honestly don't talk shit about it cause nobody wants to hear that shit. We get it, you fake political. People use these topics and stories as a way to divert from their own struggles and issues. Who cares if Casey Anthony is guilty or not when your child is in a shitty school system not getting the education they need? Y'all should worry about things you can improve in YOUR lives rather than bickering about shit that most likely doesn't mean much to you.

The notion "Shit Happens" is a phrase often used, but some people really don't grasp the concept fully. It is VERY simple people, good and bad shit happens everyday to people everywhere. Think Alanis Morissette's song "Ironic". You can be a person free of sin and act like the most righteous person in the world and get hit by a drunk driver. Sure it's a tragedy but it happens, however bad it may cause you to feel. Stay positive but also remain realistic. People nowadays have a way of feeling very entitled to shit not fathoming they could lose it all in a heartbeat.

Casey Anthony is one example. They had jurors who saw and heard more about the case than most of us civilians and yet even though she was let free yall are steady screaming she's guilty. Truth is only she REALLY knows everything so you talkin shit about her isn't doing shit at all but wasting time of your life. She clearly doesn't give a fuck about what people think. Casey isn't paying your bills or doing your Homework so take a seat and relax.

The new story that spawned this whole Fake Care blog is the Troy Davis story. Man was locked up for 20 plus years and not a fucking whisper about him. NOW the day he's to be executed you know for a fact he's not guilty? Fact is a white cop was killed in the 80's. Someone has to pay for that shit hard in Georgia. The nigga was either at the wrong place at the wrong time or he fuckin did it. Either way you're gonna continue to live your life. Sure it's sad that he has to die POTENTIALLY innocent but fact is most of you aren't gonna do shit to change the judicial system so fall back. I BY NO MEANS want him to die, but I'm not gonna lose sleep over it and most of you won't either. If you genuinely care about topics like these then this isn't addressed to you. This is for people who love to "Fake Care" about issues that clearly they wouldn't discuss if it wasn't the "Topic of the Day"

I'm Out

Brey

Logic 101:The Lonely Effect- Brey

Ok Ok I know we been slackin lately but school and work have been real in our defense. Anyway I just HAVE to get at a growing phenomenon that's become a profound detrimental aspect of many females' lifestyle.

The Lonely Effect

Smh this sad sad epidemic has snuck up and sucker punched women from many different backgrounds square in the chest. We all know friends, family, and we can even see in strangers that loneliness plays a major role in their lives. I notice it in women more so that's who I comment on. Someone you love or just know casually may be lonely if they say/tweet/post on Facebook any of the following:

• "Niggas ain't shit"
• "I wish I could cuddle right now"
• "I hate guys"
• "I'm an empowered single woman"
• "#NW The Notebook...Missing him"
• "Bout to watch 106 & Park"

You get the idea. This is statistically not a surprise, as women outnumber us guys by A LOT. I'm gonna operate for the sake of this post under the notion that women don't want a guy that cheats (even to help the community). I asked around to see what these girls criteria was for guys, because maybe that's the reason. The black girls basically described Shemar Moore in "Diary of a Mad Black Woman"..whilst white girls basically described, yep, Ryan Gosling in "The Notebook". SMH

I'm by no means hating on the men those actors portrayed, because they were real, but let's be honest here ladies: Ridiculously high expectations will kill your potential relationships. Y'all gotta meet a person and like them for THEM. Not what you think they have the potential to be. You'll only be disappointed in the future. If he tears it up but can't read a book don't expect to change him into a scholar. Some things have room for growth naturally but keep it realistic that's all I ask. If he ain't shit while you're "Talking" he won't be shit in a relationship. Not thinking realistically combined with sheer bad luck results in pure unscathed loneliness.

All of us aren't the same as well, so a lot of you end up lonely because of what some moron did to you in high school. GET OVER IT. Bad shit happens to everyone for no reason at all everyday. Stop with the sense of entitlement and let's think clearly here. If he cheats don't assume every guy is gonna cheat. It isn't fair and you'll close off a potential window for happiness and true companionship. Otherwise you can end up like Dana Gordon on Entourage and be a "Career Girl", which is what should be a main focus already. Skip the slutty dress and club night and read a damn book or make career moves. You take care of you and the rest will fall into place. We don't want women who wander around aimlessly.

This of course is me venting cause the loneliness is at an all time high right now. It's gotten hard to watch. There of course are some of you who will continue to be lonely and not know why and that's to be expected. Others may already be prepared and locked in for "Cuffing Season". Either way I'm just giving my 2 cents so if you don't agree/dislike my post sorry but I quite frankly don't care.

I'm Out,

Brey

Logic 101 The Friend Zone -Eazy

I know Brey usually does these posts, but recently I've been inspired to speak on this subject. No bitch shit though, just thoughts. Wont catch me pouring my heart out in these mean Internet streets, no way. Lets get into it tho.
Everyone knows what the friend zone is, shit is not a fun place to be. Id rather be forced to attend every Nets game for an entire season than to be catapulted into the friend zone, word up. Shit never fails though, 70% of people who have a social life and frolic with the opposite sex will unwillingly pay this zone a visit at least once in their lifetime. I'm tryna get that percentage down tho b, so once again I'm here to lend you niggas a helping hand.
I'm no stranger to the friend zone, I wont even front like I am. You may even call me sort of a frequent flyer of The Friend Zone Airways. Nah not really, but I live and learn though, enough to pass on information to ensure that you never have to travel via FZ Airways. There's no love on that flight b, just crushed dreams, disappointment and unattainable box. There's really just 1 simple way to keep from this dark place, peep this...
The easiest way to stay away from this heartless zone is by simply being real. At least from the perspective of you 2 already being friends. Just open your mouth b (pause). If you feelin' a girl, you might as well tell her. Whether its verbally or by showing with your actions, but it must be done. Actions usually don't work as well as if you were to just come out and say it, but whichever way works best for you, go for it. Who knows, she could probably be feelin' you too, you'll never know unless you ask though. Honestly the worst thing she can say is no, or fuck no if she's an asshole,  and if y'all are really friends, that should in no way hinder the friendship. If you don't speak up you're just left thinking about what could've been, and that shit is the worst, trust me. If you wait years to hit up home girl and finally tell her, and she hits you with that, "oh yea i was feeling you at that time too", you're gonna wanna murder someone yo, dead ass. Rumor has it that that is what got the Texas Chainsaw Killer started, nigga got bungee jumped into the friend zone and just lost all sanity. Same goes with you too ladies. Its a new day, don't just leave everything in the guys hands. Its over for that, if you want something done you just gotta do it yourself, word up. Because women can travel down that exact same dark path and be quick to blame it on the guy like, "he never made a move". Now you stuck with some guy who has 2 kids, a felony and outstanding traffic tickets, and wondering where you went wrong. I'm chillin' tho.
Also, if you were never friends in the first place, and you were tryna "spit game", the quickest way to get thrown into the FZ is by being too nice. It may sound strange but trust me. You do not want to be referred to as that shoulder she leans on when shit gets rough. Because at that point, she's gonna want you more as a friend and isn't gonna want to risk the friendship by trying to take it further. It needs to be understood from the time you spit your struggle pick-up lines and approach her that you tryna smash, or be more than friends. Listen to sprite, obey you thirst b. At least then you aren't wasting your time.
OK i just had to get that out, i want only for my homies to prosper, word up... I try to educate these Internet streets when possible...unless you wear Coogi, in which case, direct your mouse to the X button located conveniently in the upper right hand corner of you web browser and proceed to click.
I'm out
~Eazy

Logic 101 "Who Are You?"- Brey

Wassup y'all back with just a quick installment of Logic 101. I've been witnessing a lot of people calling other people out for not being themselves on social networking sites and in person amongst others. Here are some tips for people on BOTH sides of the equation:

1. Chill out sometimes. I make jokes and call people out from time to time but i don't do it like it's my fuckin job. Let's say if 5 people are actin fake... out of boredom I'll call out 2. People don't like someone who tries to be the realest nigga alive at all times.

2. ACTUALLY try to be yourself. I do so most of the time unless I'm having fun or something to that effect. For the record changing your vocabulary around different groups of people is NOT fake. If you talk the same way/use the same lingo around hood niggas that you do around your job you're a fucking idiot and that's not debatable. I'm not gonna talk the same around my white friends/coworkers that I do around my family or dark skinned girls point blank.

3. Play ya role. Basically the same thing. If you not about that gangster life don't act like it(seriously at least) around certain people. If you a nerd be a nerd. This is YOUR life don't spend it trying to impress people who won't remember you after you die. I personally AM technically a nerd. I've been called an "Oreo" many times because of the way i talk, but I'm not gonna talk ignorant all the time because of that.

4. Have fun. You really only have one life and you gotta have fun. This is something I do all the time. I don't give a fuck about what people think is "mature" because I do what's fun to ME. If I wanna play video games, Scrabble or fucking Yu-Gi-Oh Cards that's exactly what the fuck I'll do, and WON'T front about it in front of different company. Two quotes of mine to leave y'all with-

" Sometimes keepin it real means keeping your fucking mouth shut"

"If you worried about what the next nigga doin, you're a faggot"

I'm outtie,

Brey

Logic 101 "Hoes"- Brey

Ok sorry for the delay but I had a tough time narrowing topics down. There have been MANY blogs about hoes, heauxs, sluts, whores, slatters, etc. I'm really just here to kick the knowledge from MY point of view on the matter.

       First line of business is the definition of a hoe. A hoe, from what I've gathered and witnessed, is an individual who will have sex with whoever,wherever, whenever. The term is not gender specific, however females are more commonly quick to be labeled one. Let the definition sink in though....The girl who fucked your man twice without your knowledge is not technically a hoe. Sorry, but find another name to call her until you get facts. Females are quick to label their peers "hoes" as a generic term when they find out they had sex with more than like 3 people. FALSE. How many people you have sex with does not make you a hoe. At least in my opinion. If I genuinely like 5 females and I end up having sex with all 5 does that make me a hoe? I hope not, cause I defni-nevermind.
    
       There are some actions that can make one a hoe though. One of my colleagues(not gonna expose) had their significant other cheat on them. They then proceeded to "Revenge Fuck" at least 4 people. That is a prime example of a HOE in my eyes. If your motive is anything involving hurting another person, or getting someone back, or proving something to someone THAT right there is a red flag.

       On the flip side of things I'd advise you not to live your life afraid of being accused of being a hoe. Fellas, how many times have you been on the brink of closing in on the box then get with "Nah let's wait I don't want to be considered a hoe". Shit crushes dreams. My theory is, if you live your life not doing things you WANT to do for fear of being called a hoe, you're naturally a hoe anyway. We are all human and believe or not sex is an innate human desire. If you're safely having sex with people that you like and you're not dating them, don't sweat it. And if you're worried about what people say or think about you, there are bigger problems at hand. When you die you're not gonna die with those people. You're going to die with you, and if you don't take up opportunities out of fear of public opinion, well, frankly you're a pussy.

I'm by NO MEANS saying go fuck everybody that looks good. I'm just saying we should probably all cool it with the judgement. There are hoes out here making more money and doing bigger things with their life than you, so don't worry about someone else's journey. Worry about who you're fucking(and if they're clean) and just fuckin relax.

Aiight I'm outtie. If you disagree with what I've stated, feel free to email me at ImDefinitelyNotGonnaCare@Gmail.com

-Brey

Logic 101 "Honesty"- Brey

Wassup y'all...back again with my personal favorite segment of our weekly posts. I'd like it to be noted that I'm being 100% serious and not tryin to disrespect with these posts. That said...

Ok so honesty is a broad topic, but i just plan on covering some broad aspects of a trait that seems to elude many misled morons these days. Honesty is, or should be rather, a fundamental part of people's life. Honesty makes and breaks relationships, friendships, and public perceptions. Let's start with social networking:

Twitter and Facebook are social networks meant to have fun, but niggas are takin it to a new level with this  "I'm the most introspective, hilarious, mature, well-rounded person you'll ever meet" mentality. I don't know whether most of you do that for attention, or to stay afloat in the sea of more interesting people you encounter on these sites. It is a fact that people are gonna be more interesting than you, but don't change yourself in order to impress people who in the scheme of things do not give a fuck about you. YOU are gonna be interesting and everything good to other people, but it make sure you are staying true to yourself. Don't go from being a Trey Songz ass nigga in person to Tupac on Twitter. I've recently come under some fire lately for "not being the same person in person" that I am on Facebook /Twitter. These are mostly whispers from people who have not hung out with me in years and frankly, if you're the same person you were when you were 16/17, something is wrong with you.Moving on...

Relationships. We all have issues but honesty and communication would eliminate 80% of the problems you ever found yourself having with your significant other. If you're gonna lie, DON'T be in a relationship point blank. You're just wasting everyone's time because you aren't being you in the relationship but whoever you want that person to think you are. If you got a problem with somethin, OPEN YOUR FUCKING MOUTH( pause). Don't do that passive-aggressive "nah it don't bother me" but you're secretly fuming bullshit.It all comes out in the end so just nip shit in the bud and you'll see how much they value your honesty.Also, if you ask irrelevant questions about someones past, don't get mad if they tell you the ACTUAL truth. Some shit in the past just doesn't matter in relation to the current situation no matter how much you think it does.

Friendships. This is a slippery slope(pause). I see dudes and girls fake friendships ALL the time. Simply put, don't hang out/make friends with people if you have a motive, don't fucking like them, or just don't really have much in common. Ideally friendships should last a lifetime, but people are so fucking cool these days to admit how they really feel about their friends. If you care about your friend a lot, don't bullshit them like they're an acquaintance just because you feel the level of care isn't the same. If you don't like somethin your friend does or says, tell em. Don't complain about it to your other mutual friend then cause a storm of problems that ends in you being called a "Fake Ass Bitch". Also, if your friend tells you a secret and you swear not to tell anyone, DO JUST FUCKING THAT. Don't call your friends across town who may not know them and tell them. Everyone has that "one friend" who they tell shit to...and so on and so forth.

Aiight just had to spit minimal knowledge on what i feel should be common sense. If you disagree/agree with anything in the post let me know cause I'm def. not immune to getting shit wrong....

I'm out,

Brey/ @breyboy11

Logic 101 "Cheaters"- Brey

Yo so i know a lotta blogs are comical and others serious, but I'm not against mixing the two. Any "Logic 101" posts will be aimed towards a more serious problem that irks me or i feel needs to be addressed. That being said...

You girls have got to cut this pointless slander shit out. I understand that respect is an important factor in a relationship. You want people to respect your relationship and vice-versa. That's cool and all but if your bf decides to cheat, that's HIS FAULT 100%! You really can't get mad at the girl for doin what a single person is suppose to do(get some). A lot of girls think that the cheating is a personal attack from the other female. NAH. The last thing she's thinkin about when she's fuckin ya man is you. Y'all should direct your anger towards your man. Y'all will hate the girl, slander her on social sites, all sorts of shit yet STAY with the dude. If you stay with the dude all of your slander towards her is completely void due to the underlying fact that you're a FUCKIN idiot.

You'll have you and your whole crew slandering her an shit when truthfully y'all are just mad your man doesn't give as much of a fuck about you as you thought. Use LOGIC. She's obviously not required to give a fuck about you so just find what's the dude's problem if you really care that much....otherwise just leave that nigga and call AuB-nvm. Fact is getting mad and hating on her for capitalizing off of her innate human desire isn't logical. Actually, the problem may be you....but im chillin.

So word of advice: just let shit slide. People in your life are gonna fuck you over and do you dirty but you just gotta let it ride...Y'all stay getting tripped up over one person when there are billions more elswhere. Not every girl that fucks ya man is a slut. Granted there are some, but if he cheats on you he's either weak or doesn't care about you point blank. Aiight im out but if you really wanna lead a prosperous summer life stay away from jean skirts and jordan heels or you're a hoe.