First line of business is the definition of a hoe. A hoe, from what I've gathered and witnessed, is an individual who will have sex with whoever,wherever, whenever. The term is not gender specific, however females are more commonly quick to be labeled one. Let the definition sink in though....The girl who fucked your man twice without your knowledge is not technically a hoe. Sorry, but find another name to call her until you get facts. Females are quick to label their peers "hoes" as a generic term when they find out they had sex with more than like 3 people. FALSE. How many people you have sex with does not make you a hoe. At least in my opinion. If I genuinely like 5 females and I end up having sex with all 5 does that make me a hoe? I hope not, cause I defni-nevermind.
There are some actions that can make one a hoe though. One of my colleagues(not gonna expose) had their significant other cheat on them. They then proceeded to "Revenge Fuck" at least 4 people. That is a prime example of a HOE in my eyes. If your motive is anything involving hurting another person, or getting someone back, or proving something to someone THAT right there is a red flag.
On the flip side of things I'd advise you not to live your life afraid of being accused of being a hoe. Fellas, how many times have you been on the brink of closing in on the box then get with "Nah let's wait I don't want to be considered a hoe". Shit crushes dreams. My theory is, if you live your life not doing things you WANT to do for fear of being called a hoe, you're naturally a hoe anyway. We are all human and believe or not sex is an innate human desire. If you're safely having sex with people that you like and you're not dating them, don't sweat it. And if you're worried about what people say or think about you, there are bigger problems at hand. When you die you're not gonna die with those people. You're going to die with you, and if you don't take up opportunities out of fear of public opinion, well, frankly you're a pussy.
I'm by NO MEANS saying go fuck everybody that looks good. I'm just saying we should probably all cool it with the judgement. There are hoes out here making more money and doing bigger things with their life than you, so don't worry about someone else's journey. Worry about who you're fucking(and if they're clean) and just fuckin relax.
Aiight I'm outtie. If you disagree with what I've stated, feel free to email me at ImDefinitelyNotGonnaCare@Gmail.com
-Brey
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