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For some reason the twitter world has been focused on the topic of cheating for the past few days, and man....some of you sound so uneducated on the subject that it worries me...Fret not though ladies and gents, cause once again ya boy Eazy is here to help put everything in perspective for you lost souls. Im just here to quickly address the many, what I call, misconceptions about Cheating that i've read on my timeline recently. For the most part, I feel like the realistic people will agree with this post, you optimists that think monogamy is the key infrastructure of love may wanna scroll to the next post. For the record, I've never cheated, but lets get into it...You Don't Love Her
I think this is probably the biggest one that I disagree with, with Men for the most part. People think that if you've cheated on your girl that automatically means that you don't love her. Fuck outta here with that b. If i loved her before i slipped up and cheated, then a random shorty giving me head won't change that. Niggas quick to say "well if you love her you wont put yourself in that situation" like life doesn't constantly throw us all curve-balls. You can't plan out ever moment of your life, shit happens, you can easily not plan to cheat n the shit still just happens. In no way am I condoning cheating, the shit is terrible, I know. But if i just so happen to hit Miami on spring break, get drunk and smash a shorty, that shit doesn't take away the love I have for my girl, it's just sex. As men, we are naturally going to want new pussy, deadass, and good men for the most part will ignore those urges. So you not gonna tell me I don't love my girl if I happen to slip up. Im never gonna see shorty again, nor will I speak to her, everything is gone when the nut hits the condom b. "Its just sex" is the key phrase though, and that's why I can't speak for women. Yall are emotional creatures. Most of the times yall cheat is when you've grown attached to that person, and at that point its not just sex, you actually like this nigga. Dont try to compare the two cause growing feelings and fucking someone else is clearly the worst of the 2 evils. At that point you're cheating on 2 of the 3 levels, physically an emotionally. Again, im not justifying men cheating, its bad lol
All Men Cheat
Shut yo lonely bitter ass up
Bad Girls Dont Get Cheated On
This is really the dumbest thing I've ever heard. This goes right along with "if her box is good she won't get cheated on" FOH yo yall are thinking like women. I don't care how bad you are, cheating can easily pay a visit to a relationship near you. Dont think that just cause you a 10 ya man wont have another shorty on the floor of the hotel room in the camel clutch while he on a "business trip". A man can be perfectly satisfied in the bedroom and still cheat, that's not what its about. For the most part its curiosity, availability and ease. I guarantee that if a dude is put in a room with a bad chick who's down to fuck, no stipulations, just sex, and is assured that there is a 100% chance his girl won't find out, 85% of niggas are gonna do it! I don't care who homie has at home, that's just how we're built for the most part, im sorry. And of the remaining 15%, 5% are prolly saving till marriage and the other 10% are on the down low. Understand that niggas just naturally are gonna desire what's new and easily accessible. But of course there isn't much appreciation for NOT cheating though, cause that's what you're "supposed" to do or whatever, but I won't eem get into that.
Cheating = Breakups
Of course since society has instilled in us that cheating is wrong in every way, shape and form, everyone thinks that the only logical way to handle finding out that your guy cheated on you is to break up with them. I for one do not agree. Girls can be the happiest they've ever been with a man, know he's a good genuine man, find out he slipped up and cheated, and will leave homie just cause her girlfriends keep sayin he's no good/doesn't care. Now you just depressed for months to come and never found that happiness again just cause you couldn't get over that fact that your man got drunk n fucked some random jump. Make your own decisions! Fuck what everyone else thinks. If you know your man loves you and made an honest slip up, then fuck what "Tammy" who's been single all her life, has to say about it. Im not saying let this nigga get away with continuously smashing every girl that happens to cross his path, but just use discretion and empathize. At the end of the day its your life, make the decisions that will ensure your happiness.
Idk Those are just my thoughts on the topic. Once again, I've never cheated before, nor do I plan on it. I pray god grants me the will to turn down all ill-fated desires. Cause I, like many other good men out there, have nothing but good intentions, we're just cursed with the flaw of being a man, shit happens. But hey, Im just a young man tryna make it in these streets. Agree or disagree I wish you all the best in your future endeavors
Im out,
Eazy
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